Do you think that your ex boyfriend hates you, even though you are still in love with him? This may seem hopeless and is very painful, but it will get better. Give it a little time. His feelings will be strong at first, and what may seem like hatred, can actually be just hurt feelings.
Here are some things that you can do to deal with your pain, and perhaps begin to win him back.
If his feelings are that strong, give him some time. Do Not Contact Him.
He may have lost trust in you, or his feelings are just hurt. He may be thinking that he just wants to move on. Whatever the case may be, he just needs time to think things through. If you call him too soon, his feelings won't be any different than when you broke up, and the resentment will get even stronger.
In the meantime, think about what may have gone wrong with your relationship. What triggered the break up. When he calls you don't necessarily want to dredge up those feelings, but you need to understand what made him so upset, so that you don't do it again.
When he does contact you, take things slowly, don't try to fix everything all at once :
Give him a chance to tell you what he is feeling, what he thinks went wrong with the relationship. Give him the impression that you have moved on, that you at least haven't been dwelling on this loss. If he sees that you can handle the situation, he may not feel that there is desperation. He will be more likely to talk to you, and begin to see how you two can start to mend the fences. He'll start to realize that it is not hatred that he feels toward you, but just a sense of loss. This should start a conversation between the two of you on how to reconcile.
Here are some things that you can do to deal with your pain, and perhaps begin to win him back.
If his feelings are that strong, give him some time. Do Not Contact Him.
He may have lost trust in you, or his feelings are just hurt. He may be thinking that he just wants to move on. Whatever the case may be, he just needs time to think things through. If you call him too soon, his feelings won't be any different than when you broke up, and the resentment will get even stronger.
In the meantime, think about what may have gone wrong with your relationship. What triggered the break up. When he calls you don't necessarily want to dredge up those feelings, but you need to understand what made him so upset, so that you don't do it again.
When he does contact you, take things slowly, don't try to fix everything all at once :
Give him a chance to tell you what he is feeling, what he thinks went wrong with the relationship. Give him the impression that you have moved on, that you at least haven't been dwelling on this loss. If he sees that you can handle the situation, he may not feel that there is desperation. He will be more likely to talk to you, and begin to see how you two can start to mend the fences. He'll start to realize that it is not hatred that he feels toward you, but just a sense of loss. This should start a conversation between the two of you on how to reconcile.
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